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10 songs that feel like You Are My Sister

Matched to You Are My Sister by Antony and the Johnsons on how the music actually moves — intensity, dynamic swing, texture, tempo — not by genre tag. Here's what makes each one a match.

The song you love
You Are My Sister
Antony and the Johnsons
moderate 34/100 intensity 72 BPM
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Sad Lisa — Cat Stevens moderate 72 BPM

A 99% feel-match — carries the same emotional pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (34/100). Nearly the same tempo, too (72 BPM).

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Pagan Poetry — Björk moderate 92 BPM

89% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (30/100). Same layered texture.

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The Miracle of Love — Eurythmics safe 85 BPM

Keeps the same transcendent pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (35/100). Measured 95% alike.

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In My Feelings — Lana Del Rey moderate 85 BPM

Measures 95% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (31/100). Same layered texture.

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Know Your Worth — Khalid featuring Disclosure moderate 95 BPM

A 95% feel-match — carries the same warm pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (36/100).

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Someone Great — LCD Soundsystem moderate 95 BPM

94% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (36/100). Same layered texture.

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Winter — Tori Amos moderate 70 BPM

Keeps the same warm pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (29/100). Measured 88% alike. Nearly the same tempo, too (70 BPM).

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Hand in Glove — The Smiths moderate 92 BPM

Measures 96% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (36/100). Same layered texture.

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Serenade for Strings in C Major — Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky safe 90 BPM

A 90% feel-match — carries the same transcendent pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (37/100).

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Andvari — Sigur Rós safe 70 BPM

99% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (34/100). Same layered texture.

…and if you want it calmer

Same feeling, measured gentler — for when You Are My Sister is more than you want right now.

I Remember Everything by John Prine
I Remember Everything — John Prine safe 75 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but its dynamic range stays a gentler 2 where the original climbs to 6. Intensity 8/100, down from 34. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Nocturne in D-flat Major, Op. 27, No. 2 by Frédéric Chopin
Nocturne in D-flat Major, Op. 27, No. 2 — Frédéric Chopin safe 50 BPM

It stays in our safe band start to finish, so it lands at 34/100 — the pull without the edge.

That's the Way by Led Zeppelin
That's the Way — Led Zeppelin safe 72 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 6. Reads 21/100. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Kiss Me by Ed Sheeran
Kiss Me — Ed Sheeran safe 76 BPM

Holds the same feel while its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 6. 22/100, versus the original's 34. Nearly the same tempo, too.

POV by Ariana Grande
POV — Ariana Grande safe 85 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but it stays in our safe band start to finish. Intensity 26/100, down from 34.

ordinary things by Ariana Grande
ordinary things — Ariana Grande safe 85 BPM

Its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 6, so it lands at 16/100 — the pull without the edge.

My Funny Valentine by Frank Sinatra
My Funny Valentine — Frank Sinatra safe 72 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 6. Reads 15/100. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Changes by Black Sabbath
Changes — Black Sabbath safe 72 BPM

Holds the same feel while its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 6. 21/100, versus the original's 34. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Frequently asked

What songs sound like “You Are My Sister” by Antony and the Johnsons?

The closest feel-matches we measure are “Sad Lisa” by Cat Stevens, “Pagan Poetry” by Björk, “The Miracle of Love” by Eurythmics — the top match scores 99% alike. Matching is by how the songs actually move (intensity, dynamic range, texture, tempo, predictability, vocal force), not by genre tag or popularity.

What songs are like “You Are My Sister” but calmer?

“I Remember Everything” by John Prine, “Nocturne in D-flat Major, Op. 27, No. 2” by Frédéric Chopin, “That's the Way” by Led Zeppelin keep a similar feel while measuring gentler — lower dynamic swing, fewer sudden shifts, or a calmer overall level.

How intense is “You Are My Sister”?

It measures 34/100 on our intensity scale, computed from a dynamic range of 6/10, layered texture, mild sudden shifts, and soft vocals. Tempo is 72 BPM.

How do you decide which songs are similar?

Every song in our catalog is measured on 8 dimensions — intensity, dynamic range, tempo, sudden changes, texture, predictability, vocal force and fine sound detail. Similarity is the distance between two songs across those measurements, so matches cross genres and eras. Shared mood tags break ties.

By the numbers: how this song compares

Computed from this song’s place among the 19,209 songs we’ve measured.

Where it sits in 19,000 songs

On our 19k-song scale this lands in the middle band — more energetic than 22% of songs, calmer than the other 78%. Its intensity reading of 34/100 comes from a dynamic range of 6/10, layered texture, mild shifts, and soft vocals. Relatively few songs occupy this exact corner of the spectrum.

What makes it unusual

What stands out most about this song is a slow, unhurried pace: more extreme on that axis than 90% of everything we've measured. At the far opposite end of the library sit the songs built on full chaos — sudden changes, huge quiet-to-loud swings, and relentless energy — the kind of track this one is the counterpoint to.

Feels almost identical to

Closest matches by feel across all 19,209 measured songs — not by genre or artist, by how they actually move.

What it’s good for

Sleep6/10
Focus10/10
Workout2/10
Dinner7/10
Party / hype2/10

Scored from this song’s tempo, intensity, dynamics and texture — not crowd votes.

2005 in context

The 363 songs we’ve measured from 2005 average a dynamic range of 6.2/10. At 6/10, this track is right in line with its year.

Mixes smoothly with

Within a few BPM and close in feel — they flow without a jarring transition.

The fingerprint

Intensity34
Dynamics56
Tempo18
Surprise25
Density33
Predictability0
Vocal force25
Trigger load13

The 8-dimension measurement behind every rating on this page.

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