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10 songs that feel like Song Against Sex

Matched to Song Against Sex by Neutral Milk Hotel on how the music actually moves — intensity, dynamic swing, texture, tempo — not by genre tag. Here's what makes each one a match.

Song Against Sex
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Song Against Sex
Neutral Milk Hotel
intense 70/100 intensity 145 BPM
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Stigmata Martyr — Bauhaus intense 140 BPM

A 99% feel-match — carries the same rebellious pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (69/100). Nearly the same tempo, too (140 BPM).

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Vietnamese Baby — New York Dolls intense 145 BPM

99% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (70/100). Same layered texture.

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In the Flat Field — Bauhaus intense 160 BPM

Keeps the same rebellious pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (75/100). Measured 95% alike.

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Fast as You Can — Fiona Apple intense 135 BPM

Measures 98% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (69/100). Same layered texture.

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Forest — System of a Down intense 170 BPM

A 93% feel-match — carries the same rebellious pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (72/100).

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Love in a Void — Siouxsie and the Banshees intense 165 BPM

93% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (68/100). Same layered texture.

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Let Me In — R.E.M. intense 126 BPM

Keeps the same emotional pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (68/100). Measured 96% alike.

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Pretty Visitors — Arctic Monkeys intense 145 BPM

Measures 96% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (70/100). Same layered texture.

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One Hot Minute — Red Hot Chili Peppers intense 145 BPM

A 96% feel-match — carries the same rebellious pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (70/100). Nearly the same tempo, too (145 BPM).

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Not Alike — Eminem featuring Royce da 5'9" intense 145 BPM

96% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (70/100). Same layered texture.

…and if you want it calmer

Same feeling, measured gentler — for when Song Against Sex is more than you want right now.

Lion's Teeth by The Mountain Goats
Lion's Teeth — The Mountain Goats moderate 140 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but its dynamic range stays a gentler 6 where the original climbs to 8. Intensity 51/100, down from 70. Nearly the same tempo, too.

obsessed by Olivia Rodrigo
obsessed — Olivia Rodrigo moderate 130 BPM

It measures markedly calmer overall, so it lands at 54/100 — the pull without the edge.

Cruel by St. Vincent
Cruel — St. Vincent moderate 126 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while it measures markedly calmer overall. Reads 60/100.

We Exist by Arcade Fire
We Exist — Arcade Fire moderate 128 BPM

Holds the same feel while it measures markedly calmer overall. 61/100, versus the original's 70.

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Relax — Frankie Goes to Hollywood moderate 130 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but it eases off just enough to take the edge off. Intensity 70/100, down from 70.

Wildflowers by Soccer Mommy
Wildflowers — Soccer Mommy safe 120 BPM

Its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 8, so it lands at 19/100 — the pull without the edge.

Last Girl by Soccer Mommy
Last Girl — Soccer Mommy safe 120 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 8. Reads 19/100.

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Sax Rohmer #1 — The Mountain Goats moderate 140 BPM

Holds the same feel while its dynamic range stays a gentler 6 where the original climbs to 8. 51/100, versus the original's 70. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Frequently asked

What songs sound like “Song Against Sex” by Neutral Milk Hotel?

The closest feel-matches we measure are “Stigmata Martyr” by Bauhaus, “Vietnamese Baby” by New York Dolls, “In the Flat Field” by Bauhaus — the top match scores 99% alike. Matching is by how the songs actually move (intensity, dynamic range, texture, tempo, predictability, vocal force), not by genre tag or popularity.

What songs are like “Song Against Sex” but calmer?

“Lion's Teeth” by The Mountain Goats, “obsessed” by Olivia Rodrigo, “Cruel” by St. Vincent keep a similar feel while measuring gentler — lower dynamic swing, fewer sudden shifts, or a calmer overall level.

How intense is “Song Against Sex”?

It measures 70/100 on our intensity scale, computed from a dynamic range of 8/10, layered texture, moderate sudden shifts, and dynamic vocals. Tempo is 145 BPM.

How do you decide which songs are similar?

Every song in our catalog is measured on 8 dimensions — intensity, dynamic range, tempo, sudden changes, texture, predictability, vocal force and fine sound detail. Similarity is the distance between two songs across those measurements, so matches cross genres and eras. Shared mood tags break ties.

By the numbers: how this song compares

Computed from this song’s place among the 19,209 songs we’ve measured.

Where it sits in 19,000 songs

This is one of the more intense things in our library — more energetic than 90% of the 19,209 songs we've measured. Its intensity reading of 70/100 comes from a dynamic range of 8/10, layered texture, moderate shifts, and dynamic vocals. Relatively few songs occupy this exact corner of the spectrum.

What makes it unusual

What stands out most about this song is a fast, driving tempo: more extreme on that axis than 94% of everything we've measured. At the far opposite end of the library sit the songs built on near-total stillness — steady volume, no surprises, a slow and unhurried pulse — the kind of track this one is the counterpoint to.

Feels almost identical to

Closest matches by feel across all 19,209 measured songs — not by genre or artist, by how they actually move.

What it’s good for

Sleep0/10
Focus2/10
Workout8/10
Dinner5/10
Party / hype7/10

Scored from this song’s tempo, intensity, dynamics and texture — not crowd votes.

1996 in context

The 309 songs we’ve measured from 1996 average a dynamic range of 6.4/10. At 8/10, this track is louder and more dynamic than its year.

Mixes smoothly with

Within a few BPM and close in feel — they flow without a jarring transition.

The fingerprint

Intensity70
Dynamics78
Tempo58
Surprise50
Density33
Predictability100
Vocal force75
Trigger load0

The 8-dimension measurement behind every rating on this page.

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