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10 songs that feel like So Lonely

Matched to So Lonely by The Police on how the music actually moves — intensity, dynamic swing, texture, tempo — not by genre tag. Here's what makes each one a match.

So Lonely
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So Lonely
The Police
moderate 54/100 intensity 177 BPM
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Rosa Parks — Outkast moderate 176 BPM

A 96% feel-match — carries the same playful pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (54/100). Nearly the same tempo, too (176 BPM).

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Chaise Longue — Wet Leg moderate 152 BPM

95% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (52/100). Same layered texture.

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Too Much Monkey Business — Chuck Berry moderate 160 BPM

Keeps the same playful pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (56/100). Measured 95% alike.

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Walla Walla — The Offspring moderate 160 BPM

Measures 94% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (53/100). Same layered texture.

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La Difícil — Bad Bunny moderate 178 BPM

A 94% feel-match — carries the same playful pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (58/100). Nearly the same tempo, too (178 BPM).

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I Got Rhythm — Ella Fitzgerald moderate 180 BPM

94% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (58/100). Same layered texture.

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Want You Bad — The Offspring moderate 170 BPM

Keeps the same playful pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (57/100). Measured 94% alike. Nearly the same tempo, too (170 BPM).

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Snowball — Devo moderate 152 BPM

Measures 93% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (52/100). Same layered texture.

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Triumph of the Will — DEVO moderate 152 BPM

A 93% feel-match — carries the same playful pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (52/100).

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Thank You for Sending Me an Angel — Talking Heads moderate 140 BPM

93% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (51/100). Same layered texture.

…and if you want it calmer

Same feeling, measured gentler — for when So Lonely is more than you want right now.

Bemsha Swing by Thelonious Monk
Bemsha Swing — Thelonious Monk safe 180 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but it stays in our safe band start to finish. Intensity 44/100, down from 54. Nearly the same tempo, too.

I'm Lookin' For Someone To Love by Buddy Holly & The Crickets
I'm Lookin' For Someone To Love — Buddy Holly & The Crickets safe 175 BPM

Nothing in it lurches or startles, so it lands at 36/100 — the pull without the edge. Nearly the same tempo, too.

22 by Taylor Swift
22 — Taylor Swift safe 120 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while nothing in it lurches or startles. Reads 39/100.

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Weather Bird — Louis Armstrong safe 160 BPM

Holds the same feel while it stays in our safe band start to finish. 38/100, versus the original's 54.

Surfin' U.S.A. by The Beach Boys
Surfin' U.S.A. — The Beach Boys safe 160 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but nothing in it lurches or startles. Intensity 39/100, down from 54.

Monday Morning by Fleetwood Mac
Monday Morning — Fleetwood Mac safe 120 BPM

It stays in our safe band start to finish, so it lands at 41/100 — the pull without the edge.

Friday I'm In Love by The Cure
Friday I'm In Love — The Cure safe 135 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while it stays in our safe band start to finish. Reads 34/100.

Toosie Slide by Drake
Toosie Slide — Drake safe 82 BPM

Holds the same feel while its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 6. 16/100, versus the original's 54.

Frequently asked

What songs sound like “So Lonely” by The Police?

The closest feel-matches we measure are “Rosa Parks” by Outkast, “Chaise Longue” by Wet Leg, “Too Much Monkey Business” by Chuck Berry — the top match scores 96% alike. Matching is by how the songs actually move (intensity, dynamic range, texture, tempo, predictability, vocal force), not by genre tag or popularity.

What songs are like “So Lonely” but calmer?

“Bemsha Swing” by Thelonious Monk, “I'm Lookin' For Someone To Love” by Buddy Holly & The Crickets, “22” by Taylor Swift keep a similar feel while measuring gentler — lower dynamic swing, fewer sudden shifts, or a calmer overall level.

How intense is “So Lonely”?

It measures 54/100 on our intensity scale, computed from a dynamic range of 6/10, layered texture, mild sudden shifts, and dynamic vocals. Tempo is 177 BPM.

How do you decide which songs are similar?

Every song in our catalog is measured on 8 dimensions — intensity, dynamic range, tempo, sudden changes, texture, predictability, vocal force and fine sound detail. Similarity is the distance between two songs across those measurements, so matches cross genres and eras. Shared mood tags break ties.

By the numbers: how this song compares

Computed from this song’s place among the 19,209 songs we’ve measured.

Where it sits in 19,000 songs

On our 19k-song scale this lands in the middle band — more energetic than 74% of songs, calmer than the other 26%. Its intensity reading of 54/100 comes from a dynamic range of 6/10, layered texture, mild shifts, and dynamic vocals. It shares this stretch of the spectrum with thousands of other tracks, so the finer fingerprint below is what really separates it.

What makes it unusual

What stands out most about this song is a fast, driving tempo: more extreme on that axis than 98% of everything we've measured. At the far opposite end of the library sit the songs built on near-total stillness — steady volume, no surprises, a slow and unhurried pulse — the kind of track this one is the counterpoint to.

Feels almost identical to

Closest matches by feel across all 19,209 measured songs — not by genre or artist, by how they actually move.

What it’s good for

Sleep3/10
Focus7/10
Workout4/10
Dinner7/10
Party / hype6/10

Scored from this song’s tempo, intensity, dynamics and texture — not crowd votes.

1978 in context

The 214 songs we’ve measured from 1978 average a dynamic range of 6.1/10. At 6/10, this track is right in line with its year.

Mixes smoothly with

Within a few BPM and close in feel — they flow without a jarring transition.

The fingerprint

Intensity54
Dynamics56
Tempo76
Surprise25
Density33
Predictability50
Vocal force75
Trigger load38

The 8-dimension measurement behind every rating on this page.

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