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10 songs that feel like My Man

Matched to My Man by Billie Holiday on how the music actually moves — intensity, dynamic swing, texture, tempo — not by genre tag. Here's what makes each one a match.

My Man
The song you love
My Man
Billie Holiday
moderate 54/100 intensity 65 BPM
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Since I've Been Loving You — Led Zeppelin intense 72 BPM

A 95% feel-match — carries the same cathartic pull and runs a little hotter at 60/100. Nearly the same tempo, too (72 BPM).

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A Change Is Gonna Come — Sam Cooke intense 75 BPM

95% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it runs a little hotter at 60/100. Same complex texture.

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I Need a Doctor — Dr. Dre moderate 90 BPM

Keeps the same cathartic pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (56/100). Measured 95% alike.

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All I Ask — Adele moderate 67 BPM

Measures 96% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (58/100). Same complex texture.

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Don't Let Me Down — The Chainsmokers moderate 80 BPM

A 95% feel-match — carries the same cathartic pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (59/100).

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Tú Solo Tú — Selena intense 90 BPM

95% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it runs a little hotter at 60/100. Same complex texture.

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Inconsolable — Backstreet Boys intense 80 BPM

Keeps the same cathartic pull — runs a little hotter at 60/100. Measured 95% alike.

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Grenade — Bruno Mars moderate 84 BPM

Measures 95% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (52/100). Same complex texture.

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No Quiero Saber — Selena intense 85 BPM

A 94% feel-match — carries the same cathartic pull and runs a little hotter at 60/100.

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Breadwinner — Kacey Musgraves moderate 95 BPM

94% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (57/100). Same complex texture.

…and if you want it calmer

Same feeling, measured gentler — for when My Man is more than you want right now.

My Way by Frank Sinatra
My Way — Frank Sinatra safe 60 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but nothing in it lurches or startles. Intensity 37/100, down from 54. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Jealous Guy by John Lennon
Jealous Guy — John Lennon safe 76 BPM

Its dynamic range stays a gentler 5 where the original climbs to 7, so it lands at 22/100 — the pull without the edge.

Someone Like You by Adele
Someone Like You — Adele safe 67 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 7. Reads 15/100. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Photograph by Ed Sheeran
Photograph — Ed Sheeran safe 80 BPM

Holds the same feel while its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 7. 16/100, versus the original's 54.

All of Me by John Legend
All of Me — John Legend safe 63 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but its dynamic range stays a gentler 5 where the original climbs to 7. Intensity 18/100, down from 54. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Come Away With Me by Norah Jones
Come Away With Me — Norah Jones safe 60 BPM

Its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 7, so it lands at 14/100 — the pull without the edge. Nearly the same tempo, too.

The Magic Place by Julianna Barwick
The Magic Place — Julianna Barwick safe 70 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while its dynamic range stays a gentler 4 where the original climbs to 7. Reads 29/100. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Liability by Lorde
Liability — Lorde safe 68 BPM

Holds the same feel while its dynamic range stays a gentler 3 where the original climbs to 7. 11/100, versus the original's 54. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Frequently asked

What songs sound like “My Man” by Billie Holiday?

The closest feel-matches we measure are “Since I've Been Loving You” by Led Zeppelin, “A Change Is Gonna Come” by Sam Cooke, “I Need a Doctor” by Dr. Dre — the top match scores 95% alike. Matching is by how the songs actually move (intensity, dynamic range, texture, tempo, predictability, vocal force), not by genre tag or popularity.

What songs are like “My Man” but calmer?

“My Way” by Frank Sinatra, “Jealous Guy” by John Lennon, “Someone Like You” by Adele keep a similar feel while measuring gentler — lower dynamic swing, fewer sudden shifts, or a calmer overall level.

How intense is “My Man”?

It measures 54/100 on our intensity scale, computed from a dynamic range of 7/10, complex texture, mild sudden shifts, and dynamic vocals. Tempo is 65 BPM.

How do you decide which songs are similar?

Every song in our catalog is measured on 8 dimensions — intensity, dynamic range, tempo, sudden changes, texture, predictability, vocal force and fine sound detail. Similarity is the distance between two songs across those measurements, so matches cross genres and eras. Shared mood tags break ties.

By the numbers: how this song compares

Computed from this song’s place among the 19,209 songs we’ve measured.

Where it sits in 19,000 songs

On our 19k-song scale this lands in the middle band — more energetic than 74% of songs, calmer than the other 26%. Its intensity reading of 54/100 comes from a dynamic range of 7/10, complex texture, mild shifts, and dynamic vocals. It shares this stretch of the spectrum with thousands of other tracks, so the finer fingerprint below is what really separates it.

What makes it unusual

What stands out most about this song is a slow, unhurried pace: more extreme on that axis than 97% of everything we've measured. At the far opposite end of the library sit the songs built on full chaos — sudden changes, huge quiet-to-loud swings, and relentless energy — the kind of track this one is the counterpoint to.

Feels almost identical to

Closest matches by feel across all 19,209 measured songs — not by genre or artist, by how they actually move.

What it’s good for

Sleep3/10
Focus7/10
Workout4/10
Dinner7/10
Party / hype4/10

Scored from this song’s tempo, intensity, dynamics and texture — not crowd votes.

1956 in context

The 93 songs we’ve measured from 1956 average a dynamic range of 6.1/10. At 7/10, this track is louder and more dynamic than its year.

Mixes smoothly with

Within a few BPM and close in feel — they flow without a jarring transition.

The fingerprint

Intensity54
Dynamics67
Tempo14
Surprise25
Density60
Predictability50
Vocal force75
Trigger load0

The 8-dimension measurement behind every rating on this page.

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