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10 songs that feel like My Love, My Life

Matched to My Love, My Life by ABBA on how the music actually moves — intensity, dynamic swing, texture, tempo — not by genre tag. Here's what makes each one a match.

My Love, My Life
The song you love
My Love, My Life
ABBA
safe 21/100 intensity 68 BPM
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Kiss Me — Ed Sheeran safe 76 BPM

A 98% feel-match — carries the same romantic pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (22/100). Nearly the same tempo, too (76 BPM).

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Snowstorm — Galaxie 500 safe 60 BPM

98% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (20/100). Same smooth texture.

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lacy — Olivia Rodrigo moderate 72 BPM

Keeps the same emotional pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (21/100). Measured 99% alike. Nearly the same tempo, too (72 BPM).

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Changes — Black Sabbath safe 72 BPM

Measures 99% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (21/100). Same smooth texture.

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Zebra — Beach House safe 85 BPM

A 90% feel-match — carries the same serene pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (16/100).

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POV — Ariana Grande safe 85 BPM

95% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (26/100). Same smooth texture.

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Alexandra Leaving — Leonard Cohen moderate 72 BPM

Keeps the same serene pull — sits a little calmer at 15/100. Measured 90% alike. Nearly the same tempo, too (72 BPM).

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The Lake — Antony and the Johnsons moderate 60 BPM

Measures 92% the same. It runs a little hotter at 28/100. Same smooth texture.

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All I Want — Olivia Rodrigo moderate 72 BPM

A 92% feel-match — carries the same romantic pull and runs a little hotter at 29/100. Nearly the same tempo, too (72 BPM).

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The Ship — Brian Eno safe 60 BPM

95% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (20/100). Same smooth texture.

Frequently asked

What songs sound like “My Love, My Life” by ABBA?

The closest feel-matches we measure are “Kiss Me” by Ed Sheeran, “Snowstorm” by Galaxie 500, “lacy” by Olivia Rodrigo — the top match scores 98% alike. Matching is by how the songs actually move (intensity, dynamic range, texture, tempo, predictability, vocal force), not by genre tag or popularity.

How intense is “My Love, My Life”?

It measures 21/100 on our intensity scale, computed from a dynamic range of 4/10, smooth texture, mild sudden shifts, and soft vocals. Tempo is 68 BPM.

How do you decide which songs are similar?

Every song in our catalog is measured on 8 dimensions — intensity, dynamic range, tempo, sudden changes, texture, predictability, vocal force and fine sound detail. Similarity is the distance between two songs across those measurements, so matches cross genres and eras. Shared mood tags break ties.

By the numbers: how this song compares

Computed from this song’s place among the 19,209 songs we’ve measured.

Where it sits in 19,000 songs

This sits near the calm end of everything we've measured — gentler than 87% of the 19,209 songs in the library. Its intensity reading of 21/100 comes from a dynamic range of 4/10, smooth texture, mild shifts, and soft vocals. Relatively few songs occupy this exact corner of the spectrum.

What makes it unusual

What stands out most about this song is an unusually steady, even volume: more extreme on that axis than 97% of everything we've measured. At the far opposite end of the library sit the songs built on full chaos — sudden changes, huge quiet-to-loud swings, and relentless energy — the kind of track this one is the counterpoint to.

Feels almost identical to

Closest matches by feel across all 19,209 measured songs — not by genre or artist, by how they actually move.

What it’s good for

Sleep8/10
Focus9/10
Workout1/10
Dinner7/10
Party / hype1/10

Scored from this song’s tempo, intensity, dynamics and texture — not crowd votes.

1976 in context

The 192 songs we’ve measured from 1976 average a dynamic range of 6.2/10. At 4/10, this track is gentler and steadier than its year.

Mixes smoothly with

Within a few BPM and close in feel — they flow without a jarring transition.

The fingerprint

Intensity21
Dynamics33
Tempo16
Surprise25
Density0
Predictability0
Vocal force25
Trigger load13

The 8-dimension measurement behind every rating on this page.

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