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10 songs that feel like If I Can't Have You

Matched to If I Can't Have You by Shawn Mendes on how the music actually moves — intensity, dynamic swing, texture, tempo — not by genre tag. Here's what makes each one a match.

If I Can't Have You
The song you love
If I Can't Have You
Shawn Mendes
moderate 40/100 intensity 95 BPM
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Dua Lipa — Jack Harlow moderate 95 BPM

A 99% feel-match — carries the same joyful pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (40/100). Nearly the same tempo, too (95 BPM).

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Already Best Friends — Jack Harlow, Chris Brown moderate 90 BPM

99% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (39/100). Same smooth texture.

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Alarm — Burna Boy moderate 104 BPM

Keeps the same joyful pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (40/100). Measured 98% alike.

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Liar — Camila Cabello moderate 105 BPM

Measures 98% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (41/100). Same smooth texture.

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Dime Tu Nombre — Natti Natasha moderate 85 BPM

A 98% feel-match — carries the same joyful pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (39/100).

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To Be Young, Gifted and Black — Nina Simone moderate 100 BPM

99% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (40/100). Same smooth texture.

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Higher Love — Kygo & Whitney Houston moderate 100 BPM

Keeps the same joyful pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (40/100). Measured 99% alike. Nearly the same tempo, too (100 BPM).

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La Modelo — Ozuna, Cardi B moderate 89 BPM

Measures 99% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (39/100). Same smooth texture.

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I Just Want to Love U (Give It 2 Me) — Jay-Z moderate 98 BPM

A 96% feel-match — carries the same joyful pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (36/100). Nearly the same tempo, too (98 BPM).

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Loco — Natti Natasha & Farruko moderate 92 BPM

96% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (36/100). Same smooth texture.

…and if you want it calmer

Same feeling, measured gentler — for when If I Can't Have You is more than you want right now.

Mas Que Nada by Jorge Ben
Mas Que Nada — Jorge Ben safe 100 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but its dynamic range stays a gentler 5 where the original climbs to 7. Intensity 35/100, down from 40. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Riptide by Vance Joy
Riptide — Vance Joy safe 100 BPM

Its dynamic range stays a gentler 5 where the original climbs to 7, so it lands at 22/100 — the pull without the edge. Nearly the same tempo, too.

One Piece at a Time by Johnny Cash
One Piece at a Time — Johnny Cash safe 90 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while its dynamic range stays a gentler 5 where the original climbs to 7. Reads 29/100. Nearly the same tempo, too.

That's the Way It Is by Celine Dion
That's the Way It Is — Celine Dion safe 90 BPM

Holds the same feel while it stays in our safe band start to finish. 36/100, versus the original's 40. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Better Get to Livin' by Dolly Parton
Better Get to Livin' — Dolly Parton safe 104 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but it stays in our safe band start to finish. Intensity 37/100, down from 40. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Come Fly with Me by Frank Sinatra
Come Fly with Me — Frank Sinatra safe 110 BPM

It stays in our safe band start to finish, so it lands at 34/100 — the pull without the edge.

You Make Me Feel So Young by Frank Sinatra
You Make Me Feel So Young — Frank Sinatra safe 110 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while it stays in our safe band start to finish. Reads 34/100.

Dancing Queen by ABBA
Dancing Queen — ABBA safe 100 BPM

Holds the same feel while it stays in our safe band start to finish. 45/100, versus the original's 40. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Frequently asked

What songs sound like “If I Can't Have You” by Shawn Mendes?

The closest feel-matches we measure are “Dua Lipa” by Jack Harlow, “Already Best Friends” by Jack Harlow, Chris Brown, “Alarm” by Burna Boy — the top match scores 99% alike. Matching is by how the songs actually move (intensity, dynamic range, texture, tempo, predictability, vocal force), not by genre tag or popularity.

What songs are like “If I Can't Have You” but calmer?

“Mas Que Nada” by Jorge Ben, “Riptide” by Vance Joy, “One Piece at a Time” by Johnny Cash keep a similar feel while measuring gentler — lower dynamic swing, fewer sudden shifts, or a calmer overall level.

How intense is “If I Can't Have You”?

It measures 40/100 on our intensity scale, computed from a dynamic range of 7/10, smooth texture, no sudden shifts, and dynamic vocals. Tempo is 95 BPM.

How do you decide which songs are similar?

Every song in our catalog is measured on 8 dimensions — intensity, dynamic range, tempo, sudden changes, texture, predictability, vocal force and fine sound detail. Similarity is the distance between two songs across those measurements, so matches cross genres and eras. Shared mood tags break ties.

By the numbers: how this song compares

Computed from this song’s place among the 19,209 songs we’ve measured.

Where it sits in 19,000 songs

On our 19k-song scale this lands in the middle band — more energetic than 34% of songs, calmer than the other 66%. Its intensity reading of 40/100 comes from a dynamic range of 7/10, smooth texture, no sudden shifts, and dynamic vocals. It shares this stretch of the spectrum with thousands of other tracks, so the finer fingerprint below is what really separates it.

What makes it unusual

What stands out most about this song is deep calm: more extreme on that axis than 66% of everything we've measured. At the far opposite end of the library sit the songs built on full chaos — sudden changes, huge quiet-to-loud swings, and relentless energy — the kind of track this one is the counterpoint to.

Feels almost identical to

Closest matches by feel across all 19,209 measured songs — not by genre or artist, by how they actually move.

What it’s good for

Sleep5/10
Focus9/10
Workout2/10
Dinner9/10
Party / hype3/10

Scored from this song’s tempo, intensity, dynamics and texture — not crowd votes.

2018 in context

The 461 songs we’ve measured from 2018 average a dynamic range of 6.3/10. At 7/10, this track is louder and more dynamic than its year.

Mixes smoothly with

Within a few BPM and close in feel — they flow without a jarring transition.

The fingerprint

Intensity40
Dynamics67
Tempo31
Surprise0
Density0
Predictability50
Vocal force75
Trigger load0

The 8-dimension measurement behind every rating on this page.

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