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10 songs that feel like I Want You to Love Me

Matched to I Want You to Love Me by Fiona Apple on how the music actually moves — intensity, dynamic swing, texture, tempo — not by genre tag. Here's what makes each one a match.

I Want You to Love Me
The song you love
I Want You to Love Me
Fiona Apple
intense 67/100 intensity 112 BPM
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Geyser — Mitski intense 128 BPM

A 97% feel-match — carries the same cathartic pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (68/100).

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Losss — Björk intense 110 BPM

99% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (67/100). Same layered texture.

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Wings for Marie (Pt 1) — Tool intense 92 BPM

Keeps the same cathartic pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (69/100). Measured 94% alike.

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Mr. Morale — Kendrick Lamar intense 92 BPM

Measures 94% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (65/100). Same layered texture.

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Immature — Björk intense 130 BPM

A 96% feel-match — carries the same cathartic pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (69/100).

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Jambi — Tool intense 102 BPM

98% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (66/100). Same layered texture.

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I Know It's Over — Jeff Buckley intense 85 BPM

Keeps the same cathartic pull — lands at almost exactly the same energy (68/100). Measured 93% alike.

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90210 — Travis Scott intense 120 BPM

Measures 98% the same. It lands at almost exactly the same energy (68/100). Same layered texture.

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Untrustable (Pt. 2) (About Someone Else) — Built To Spill intense 120 BPM

A 98% feel-match — carries the same emotional pull and lands at almost exactly the same energy (68/100). Nearly the same tempo, too (120 BPM).

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Brennisteinn — Sigur Rós intense 120 BPM

96% match across our 8 measured dimensions; it lands at almost exactly the same energy (71/100). Same layered texture.

…and if you want it calmer

Same feeling, measured gentler — for when I Want You to Love Me is more than you want right now.

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Pink Turns to Blue — Hüsker Dü moderate 120 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but it measures markedly calmer overall. Intensity 53/100, down from 67. Nearly the same tempo, too.

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I've Gotta Get a Message to You — Bee Gees moderate 120 BPM

It eases off just enough to take the edge off, so it lands at 60/100 — the pull without the edge. Nearly the same tempo, too.

Caught a Lite Sneeze by Tori Amos
Caught a Lite Sneeze — Tori Amos moderate 126 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while it eases off just enough to take the edge off. Reads 60/100.

Let Go by Sharon Van Etten
Let Go — Sharon Van Etten moderate 110 BPM

Holds the same feel while it measures markedly calmer overall. 52/100, versus the original's 67. Nearly the same tempo, too.

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Butcher the Song — Cursive moderate 130 BPM

Keeps the same feel of the original, but it measures markedly calmer overall. Intensity 54/100, down from 67.

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Tunic (Song For Karen) — Sonic Youth moderate 95 BPM

It eases off just enough to take the edge off, so it lands at 65/100 — the pull without the edge.

Die schöne Müllerin by Franz Schubert
Die schöne Müllerin — Franz Schubert moderate 90 BPM

If it's the same feel you're after, this delivers it while it measures markedly calmer overall. Reads 57/100.

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Soundtrack 2 My Life — Kid Cudi moderate 92 BPM

Holds the same feel while it measures markedly calmer overall. 50/100, versus the original's 67.

Frequently asked

What songs sound like “I Want You to Love Me” by Fiona Apple?

The closest feel-matches we measure are “Geyser” by Mitski, “Losss” by Björk, “Wings for Marie (Pt 1)” by Tool — the top match scores 97% alike. Matching is by how the songs actually move (intensity, dynamic range, texture, tempo, predictability, vocal force), not by genre tag or popularity.

What songs are like “I Want You to Love Me” but calmer?

“Pink Turns to Blue” by Hüsker Dü, “I've Gotta Get a Message to You” by Bee Gees, “Caught a Lite Sneeze” by Tori Amos keep a similar feel while measuring gentler — lower dynamic swing, fewer sudden shifts, or a calmer overall level.

How intense is “I Want You to Love Me”?

It measures 67/100 on our intensity scale, computed from a dynamic range of 8/10, layered texture, moderate sudden shifts, and dynamic vocals. Tempo is 112 BPM.

How do you decide which songs are similar?

Every song in our catalog is measured on 8 dimensions — intensity, dynamic range, tempo, sudden changes, texture, predictability, vocal force and fine sound detail. Similarity is the distance between two songs across those measurements, so matches cross genres and eras. Shared mood tags break ties.

By the numbers: how this song compares

Computed from this song’s place among the 19,209 songs we’ve measured.

Where it sits in 19,000 songs

This is one of the more intense things in our library — more energetic than 87% of the 19,209 songs we've measured. Its intensity reading of 67/100 comes from a dynamic range of 8/10, layered texture, moderate shifts, and dynamic vocals. Relatively few songs occupy this exact corner of the spectrum.

What makes it unusual

What stands out most about this song is blazing intensity: more extreme on that axis than 87% of everything we've measured. At the far opposite end of the library sit the songs built on near-total stillness — steady volume, no surprises, a slow and unhurried pulse — the kind of track this one is the counterpoint to.

Feels almost identical to

Closest matches by feel across all 19,209 measured songs — not by genre or artist, by how they actually move.

What it’s good for

Sleep0/10
Focus2/10
Workout5/10
Dinner5/10
Party / hype7/10

Scored from this song’s tempo, intensity, dynamics and texture — not crowd votes.

2020 in context

The 475 songs we’ve measured from 2020 average a dynamic range of 6.2/10. At 8/10, this track is louder and more dynamic than its year.

Mixes smoothly with

Within a few BPM and close in feel — they flow without a jarring transition.

The fingerprint

Intensity67
Dynamics78
Tempo40
Surprise50
Density33
Predictability100
Vocal force75
Trigger load13

The 8-dimension measurement behind every rating on this page.

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